Maybe you should toy around with the idea that essentialism is a bunch of arse, and trying to force it on all players as holy mythic truth is a stupid idea guaranteed to piss off many of them.
Would you want to try telling some female corporate lawyers that perhaps they should understand that not try to take on men at their own game and that motherhood, cooking, and femininity is the real source of female power, and they might want to try a different profession? And if you don't expect them to swallow that kind of stuff in real life, why do you expect women to want to in their hobbies?
Cheers ' David
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