Sexy Balazarings

From: Bernuetz, Oliver: WPG <Bernuetz.Oliver_at_cbsc.ic.gc.ca>
Date: Thu, 2 Mar 2000 13:48:00 -0500


This is my take on the social structure, sex life, marriage structure and attitudes
towards women among the Balazarings. Some of this is off of the Griffin Mt. part of the Glorantha web site but I've expanded on it (especially where the social structure makes no sense).

Social Structure

Balazaring society is nominally centered around three tribes each claiming descent from one of Balazar's children each of which is centered on one of the three citadels. In reality not every Balazaring recognizes the citadels as being dominant and the actual organizational unit is the clan. Most clans
are allied with one or another of the citadels but not all of them are. The clans
that are associated with the citadels have tended to be pretty static though recently more of the western clans have allied themselves with Elkoi, the Lunar controlled citadel so that they can receive metal weapons and armour from them. No one knows how loyal they would be if another citadel would declare war on the Lunars however.

(In my version of Balazar there are three arch-conservative clans that refused
to follow Balazar that live in the Elder Wilds and are not allied to any citadel.)

There are a total of ten clans each of which claims descent from one of Votank's ten children. Each of these clans is usually around 420 people in size with about 280 adults. The main family unit among most Balazarings is the hearth not the nuclear family. The hearth is focused on a female worshipper of the Hearth Mother who is responsible for looking after the sacred fire. The other members of the hearth are usually her husband, another woman, her husband and any children.

This is the core hearth size and is the absolute minimum size. Depending on the season one or more additional hearths will be travelling with them for added protection and increased food gathering capabilities.

Despite what GM states hearth and clan decisions are made according to need. The time of year dictates where hearths travel to and the type of food they are collecting determines movement. When it's hunting time the hunters decide where they go. When it's gathering time the gatherers decide. In times of danger or stress the Tharkanti or senior Foundchild worshipper present makes the decisions basing their decisions on expected behavior (if possible) or on the advice of the most respected clan members. In time of war the clan leader makes decisions he or she thinks can be accepted by the majority (not just the hunter initiates). The most important
member of a hearth is the hearth mother since she protects the sacred fire.

The hearth relationship is the closest and tightest relationship among the Balazarings and no Balazaring would betray or hurt a member of their hearth. Fights within a clan are rare as well and violence usually occurs between different clans.

Marriage is a pretty informal institution among most Balazarings with pairings joining or breaking up whenever either partner wants to. Descent is traced through both parents This serves to maximize the number of relatives people can count on in times of trouble. Sex is allowed with anyone who isn't your father, mother, sibling, aunt, uncle or grandparent. There is no stigma associated with being born out of wedlock since it's such a temporary status.

Women approach men and men approach women and sex is normally by consensus.. Rape is virtually unheard of and usually the result of some outsider forcing himself on one of the local women. Homosexuality has no stigma among the Balazarings as they don't tend to have big families and there isn't a taboo against non-procreative sex. Public displays of affection are not common and couples usually seek privacy before getting physical. Children are constantly hugged, kissed and given lots of attention. Lacking domestic animals bestiality is not encountered. Dogs are considered siblings so they're not a permitted sex partner.

Nudity is expected, weather permitting and nothing to comment about though most people will cover their privates with at least a loin cloth.
Infanticide is only practised in the case of extreme deformity. Women usually give birth when they are in their late teens, early twenties and usually
make the decision as to timing. Babies are nursed for as long as two years and birth control is practised. Birth is a sacred event and only women and shamans (who are considered to be neither male nor female) are allowed in the birthing chamber.

The Balazarings do not practise representational art forms.

There is a clear and expected division of male and female duties. Women bear children, watch the sacred hearths and gather the majority of the food. Men hunt, protect the clans and hearths, fight their enemies and make tools. Religion is the venue of both sexes depending on the deity and the shamans among the tribes are considered to be neither men nor women. While it is unusual it is possible for a man or a woman to follow non-traditional roles. The Balazarings aren't as accepting as the Orlanthi are but they don't usually make the non-conformer's life too miserable. Women adopting a "male lifestyle" are usually treated as a male and vice versa.

Now on top of this neat social structure is imposed (sort of) that of the Tharkanti. Balazar brought his typically uptight, patriarchal social order and introduced it into Votanki society. It was a lousy fit to say the least.
For the most part the accommodation was one way (and not the expected way either). A lot of traditional Tharkanti practises were abandoned such as sexism, taboos against homosexuality, patrilocality, patrilineality, etc. The Tharkanti lineages within the clans (descended for the most part from Balazar's followers) tend to favour the male parent in descent, only marry and breed with each other (though their pure lineages are mostly a self-deception by now) and tend to worship Tharkantus and serve as leaders and warriors within the clans. There are very few of these families as they are most useful in the winter when the trolls are raiding and aren't that useful at other times of the years. A lot of them live in the citadels and provide warriors for the citadel guards.

The clan leaders tend to claim descent from one of Votank's children AND one of Balazar's followers. A lot of this is as authentic as a Waha Kahn being descended from Waha though.

Oliver D. Bernuetz
www.geocities.com/bernuetz
bernuetz.oliver_at_cbsc.ic.gc.ca


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